More force is not a strategy


By Design Fridays #001

One idea, every Friday. That's the deal. Here's the first.

For years I ran my business on one operating assumption: breakthroughs are a function of force. Work harder, push longer, out-grind the room. And it did work...sort of — which is exactly why it took me years to see the problem.

The problem was the shape of my asking. I was praying "God, bless what I'm doing" when I should have been asking "God, lead me to where You want me to go."

One asks heaven to ratify a plan I'd already locked in. The other asks for the plan itself. I was demanding a co-signer when what I needed was a compass.

Strip out the theology if you must, and the operator truth still stands: more brute force is not a strategy. Past a certain point, grinding harder on the wrong plan just gets you to the wrong place faster, more tired.

The diagnostic I'd hand you before any tactic: are you forcing an outcome, or discerning a direction?

I wrote the full story — the treadmill years, the flat realisation, the three things I actually changed — here:

→ The Most Expensive Mistake I Made as an Operator
https://nigelchua.com/trying-harder-expensive-mistake/

See you next Friday.

Reply and tell me what you're building this week — I read every one.

Nigel
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